“If I change my mind, then I’d have to admit I’ve been wrong.”
He was a good man: humble and kind. He had lived for more than 80 years and had a gentle wisdom about him. So when my friend made this statement, my jaw dropped. How on earth can anyone think that way? I marveled.
But then I remembered – that used to be me.
I used to believe that “Right” and “Wrong” were Black and White; that if I was right, and you disagreed with me, then you must be wrong.
Now I believe all of us are probably mostly a little bit right and a whole lot wrong – about a whole lot of things.
I used to believe truth was a small fragile thing that needed to be defended.
Now I believe Truth is a rainbow with infinite colors and facets that takes a lifetime to explore. Truth doesn’t need to be defended; it needs to be discovered. Continue reading Change of Mind, Change of Heart: Moving Away from Fundamentalism